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Using Nonviolent Communication to Improve Your Relationship
Nonviolent Communication is about cultivating a language of compassion—it’s both a spirit and a process. And, while it’s fairly straightforward, I’ve witnessed swift and dramatic improvements in couples’ attunement, listening skills, kindness, and willingness to understand their partners once they get practicing. Here I’ll share an overview and some additional resources so you can start applying NVC skills in your relationships—romantic, platonic, familial and otherwise.
What We Still Get Wrong About Multiracial Identity
Mixed identity can be a source of pride and joy. It can also be enormously frustrating to feel othered, misunderstood, or made invisible — at times, even within our own families.
If you’re multiracial, you probably have spent time reflecting on how your heritage has shaped you. And you may have a different perspective on race and culture than your monoracial counterparts.
Fostering Healthy Interdependence in Your Relationship: A Guide
There are as many wonderful things about being queer as there are queer people in the world–it would be impossible to cover all the ways queerness can be an enriching, life saving experience in a single blog post. So today, we’re just going to focus on four big ones.
Is Anxiety a Friend or Foe? A Look at Inside Out 2
Whether its “Sunday scaries,” impostor syndrome, social anxiety, or bearing witness to our socio-political climate, anxiety is omnipresent. A psychologist’s reflections on Inside Out 2 and her own journey with anxiety.
Are You Lonely? How To Tell, And What You Can Do About It
Nearly half of American adults report feeling lonely and disconnected, and the health implications of this are alarming, ranging from mental health complications to an increased risk of premature death. The good news is that we have the power to get ourselves out of this cycle.
What Millennial Women Should Know About Covid in 2024
Sick of Covid? Me too. Here’s what I’ve learned as a psychologist supporting women with Long Covid in 2024, and what you need to know too.
4 Things We Love About Being Queer This Pride Month
There are as many wonderful things about being queer as there are queer people in the world–it would be impossible to cover all the ways queerness can be an enriching, life saving experience in a single blog post. So today, we’re just going to focus on four big ones.
Understanding Asexuality
Whether you decide to take the label “Asexual” or not, knowing the term and validating your experiences is always helpful to knowing more about ourselves. It might also help with communication with partners or finding partners when we have a clearer idea of what our attraction
On Heartbreak: Navigating Ambiguous Loss, Leaning Into Grief, and Finding Comfort in Creativity
Heartbreak mirrors the grief experienced by death in many ways, and it also has some important differences. In the aftermath of a breakup, it’s important to allow ourselves space to grieve and to accept the dizzying array of emotions that follow. You can’t simply pack them away in a shoebox with your lover’s belongings.
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