Perfectionism | Mental Health Tips Having high standards and an unrelenting work ethic can help us achieve challenging goals. But when does this mindset start working against us? As I contemplated this question and prepared to write a blog post on perfectionism, I...
Nonviolent Communication | Advice from a Therapist | Couples Therapy Nonviolent Communication, developed by Marshall Rosenberg, is often one of the first skills I introduce to therapy clients. It’s great for individuals and couples alike, because it’s a simple...
Multiracial Identity | Therapy & Identity Development Kamala Harris is going to be front and center of the news cycle for at least the next few months. Whatever you think of her politics, there’s no denying that she’s making history. As a Black and...
Relationships | Healthy Interdependence Seeking Connection Between Two Extremes As humans, we are inherently wired for connection. This fundamental need to bond with others often leads us to form deep, meaningful relationships, and to get our needs met. We are...
,Anxiety | Inside Out 2 | Mental Health & Pop Culture San Francisco psychologist Alexis Lopez, PsyD, reflects on the portrayal of anxiety in Inside Out 2, and her own experiences with anxiety as a young person from an immigrant family. (Some plot spoilers ahead,...
Managing Loneliness | Mental Health Tips Feeling isolated, invisible, and insignificant? These emotional experiences are now so common our Surgeon General has addressed the current loneliness epidemic as a public health crisis. Nearly half of American adults report...